Thirteen Reasons Why by
Jay Asher
My rating:
5 of 5 stars
I had to re-read this book since the Netflix series started. I watched the first episode and suddenly couldn't take it because I couldn't remember what happened in the book, and I wanted to see how much the book would be changed for a film adaptation. So take two, I read the book in a few days and am slowly following behind with the series.
I love re-reading a book - looking at it from a different lens depending what is happening in your own life. When I first read this book, I didn't have children. Now, I have a 7 and 8 year-old. Reading this as a parent made me look at this book differently. I started thinking about my own children when they are in high school and the struggles and pressures they will be faced with.
Sure, Asher's books isn't that realistic in the fact that there is a lot of planning Hannah has to do ahead of time in order for her tapes to go out and start to circulate after her death. What Asher does is give Hannah a voice after she is gone. Answering the question of why - which most families and friends are left with and don't get an answer.
It is apparent that Asher lost someone to suicide and really thought a lot about what it must have been like for this person, and what they were going through before coming to the decision to die. A friend I had in high school committed suicide in college. We were left with so many questions. There were no answers and no note. It devastated so many people around him and there will always be a void.
This book is creative, intricate and though provoking. We don't know how fragile people are, we don't know how one action or word could be their tipping point. This book lets the reader think about everything that happened to Hannah - no matter how big or minuscule - these things lead up to her unhappiness and not having an outlet.
I hope this book teaches kindness, compassion and the ability to accept those for who they are. Thank you Jay Asher for giving us something to think about.
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